Skill 1: Understanding the behavior
The first skill certainly seems obvious. A child needs to undertand what is expected of them and be cognitively, physically and emotionally capable of doing it. I find that I often overestimate and sometimes underestimate what my children are capable of. For example, I’m never quite sure how many chores I should give them. They are [...]
The 6 skills children need to behave well
Often the beahivor that an adult wants a child to do seems minor and easy to them. It seems easy for us to remember to pick up our towels off the bathroom floor after a shower. It seems easy to remember not to grab toys out of our friends hands and then to not hit [...]
Struggling with my strong-willed child
I’m having some incredibly difficult parenting days recently. My younger son, who has always been trying, has become far more difficult. He’s what I call, “persistent.” When he has a desire, if I stand in the way, he just keeps focusing on it and driving for it.
One day, when we were playing outside, he wanted [...]