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Goals and Deadlines

22nd October 2008

Goals and Deadlines

by Aileen Journey

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I have just signed up for  NaNoWriMo for this year. For those of you who don’t know about NaNoMoWri, it’s an online group of people who spend November writing a novel.  The goal is to reach 50,000 words in the 30 days.  I had heard about it a couple of years ago, but was working two jobs and couldn’t do it.  Now that I have much more free time I figure I’ll try.  I do very well with deadlines and a bit of pressure.

It made me think, though, about small goals and how they grow together to become big.  To write 50,000 words in 30 days you have to write about 1,667 words a day or more one day and less another.  It’s not that many words really, but if you do it, you end up with a short novel-length manuscript in the end. That’s not to say that what is written will be good, but the fact that so many big things can be approached with such little effort is amazing. If someone wanted to write a novel and take a whole two months instead of one month, that’s just under 900 words a day.
One of the reason that many people can achieve this 50,000 words goal or even more is that they have chosen a goal and chosen a deadline.  These two things work together.  it’s important to have a goal so you know where you want to go, but it’s also important to have some kind of timeline.  Without a timeline, even one that you do not make, you are free to just continuously put off your goal or even the tasks required to achieve that goal.  Procrastination is what keeps almost all goals from being achieved.
We put things off, we make excuses. We assume that we can’t do it.  We find other tings that are not uncomfortable to do instead of doing the tasks that will take us to our goals.
Right now, I have huge amounts of free time.  I can earn enough money in a relatively short part of my day and then I can do what I want.  The problem is that I haven’t set any time lines for myself.  My goal remains to become a free-lance writer for magazines.  I’ve read many books on the subject and have some publishing credits.  I have a pretty good idea of what I need to do and what steps will get me where I want to go. The problem is that haven’t set any dead lines.  I’m just meandering along without doing much towards my goal.  I know that if I would put deadlines on certain aspects of the task, I would get far more done and achieve my goal faster.  The problem is making myself do it, especially when I don’t have to.
NaNoMoWri gives me the incentive to move ahead.  It only happens in November, so I can’t really put it off, unless I want to wait for next year, which doesn’t make any sense.  It’s flexible, so if I don’t get it all written, I’m still fine.
The point is, find some way to motivate yourself. Find someone or even yourself to give you an incentive to work on your larger goals.  My initial writing goal was to have a writing career by the time I was 50.  I still have many years left to achieve that, but maybe I should shorten the timeline.  Maybe I should make financial goals for next year and the year after and so forth.  One thing that’s becoming clear is that I need to impose some clarity about goals, tasks and deadlines for myself if I want to transition to a writing career.
Goals need a pull (the goal) and a push (the deadline). Find ways to create both so that you can really get yourself moving ahead.

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20th October 2008

Think (way) outside the box

by Aileen Journey
Micronesia

Micronesia

I have a friend who owns a little shop a couple of towns over. Whenever I have a free day with no appointments or major requirements I bike over to visit her.  We usually sit in her shop and talk.  This last visit she had another friend in the shop at the same time so we’ll all talked.  One story that this man told was fascinating from the concept of changing your life the way you want it.  Unfortunately the story was second hand, years old and I’ve already forgotten details so this will be a bit fictionalized version of what happened.

The man I was talking to was riding on a train across the country.  He said that when you’re riding alone you’re placed at a table with other people, wherever you’ll fit. One evening he found himself seated with a number of people.  When they went around the table to find out what everybody did, one man said that he made beads, buttons and bowls from the Micronesian ivory nut.  My friend said, “What?”  the man then explained that back I the 80s Ronald Reagan said something about making some kind of drug policy and this man decided that the U.S. was no longer his country.  He decided to look for another place to live in the world.  He decided through some process on Micronesia.  He went to live there.  Soon he became tired of walking all the way to the central well for his water so he rigged up some kind of pipe system to bring the water closer to him and to his neighbors.  The people in the town were so grateful that they gave the man some land to own.  The man continued to live there and one day was reading up on his newly adopted country and discovered that its primary export was the ivory nut.  He realized he didn’t even know what that was, so he wanted to find out.  He found out that it was a nice looking nut that could be made into different things so he started to carve it and make it into a variety of useful things.

It’s certainly not everyone’s dream to escape to some tiny country without running water and carve nuts, but this story, even without accuracy, shows the flexibility of what can be done with motivation and desire.  What’s the most outlandish thing you can think of that you want?  Consider some seriously “out of the box” ways of getting what you want.  Most people will not take the most unusual and different way of getting somewhere, but thinking about it helps flex the creative solving-problem muscle.  Perhaps moving to Micronesia is not your idea of a good time, but maybe taking some time off from your job and moving to a much cheaper place to live for a short time is.  Basically, there are many ways to get what you want.  Consider the craziest to see what insight it gives you.

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